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With the deck seemingly stacked against her, Debbie
Manning, RN, beat the odds and is on a roll to a new
role in medicine: ob/gyn physician from obstetrics nurse.
Her fortune, however, has nothing to do with luck.
Persistence and the quest for an education have carried
her through 12 years of nursing to the brink of medical
school at the University of South Florida. She plans
to enroll in the fall, all the while maintaining her
career at Heart of Florida Regional Medical Center in
Davenport, and rearing a daughter, 10, and sons, 4 and
3, with her husband, Virgil, at their home in Winterhaven,
Fla.
"I come from a very rural, very poor family,"
Manning said of her upbringing in Demopolis, Ala. "I
was the first one to graduate high school, let alone
college, on both sides of my family. Education is the
key to breaking that cycle of poverty."
Working a Baylor shift, 7 p.m. to 7 a.m. Saturdays
and Sundays, allows a weekday routine that goes like
this:
Up before 7 a.m. to get the kids breakfast and off
to school, then errands and housework. She tries to
cram in homework for a medical school prerequisite before
picking up the kids at 3 p.m., giving them snacks, starting
supper and getting them to bed around 9 p.m. "I
try to spend time in the evenings with them and my husband,"
Manning said. Then, it's more homework.
She said her best advice to RNs is to get as much education
as you can, as young as you can, because it creates
career opportunities.
At 31, Manning said she sometimes doesn't feel too
young, but being a physician has always been her goal.
"Being a nurse was supposed to be a steppingstone.
I didn't think it would take me 12 years," she
said.
The source of her inspiration was a grandmother who
mostly raised her. "She had chronic lung disease
which developed into heart disease," Manning said.
"She was sick basically her entire life. I just
wanted to take care of her, I think, which I did my
best to do," until she passed away three years
ago at age 63.
The decision to specialize in obstetrics is a reflection
of Manning's experience as a dialysis nurse, in open-heart
and medical intensive care, med/surg and now as a charge
nurse in labor and delivery.
"I like obstetrics because, typically, it's a
happy time that you're in the hospital. It's not a death
and dying time," Manning said. "I did my share
of that. A new life coming into the world is a miracle
every time no matter how many times I've seen it."
From the perspective of an RN who one day will have
an "MD" behind her name, Manning said that
physicians generally don't appreciate the sense of responsibility
that nurses have.
"They give us orders, but what they don't understand
is that we're just as responsible, even more so, that
the order is correct and that we don't do any harm to
our patients," she said.
On the other hand, nurses tend not to understand how
much time physicians put in away from their families
and that "they really never get to leave their
job. They're always on call," she said.
Manning said that despite scholarships, employer reimbursement
for job-related education and some federal funding,
"There have been terms that I've sat out because
I didn't have the money." Her determination, though,
has not gone unnoticed.
A couple of people at work have followed her example
and gone back to school, she said. "They said if
I can do it, they can, because they don't have three
kids and the responsibilities that I have. I like thinking
that I inspired someone to go on with their education."
Contact
Phil McPeck at getpjm@aol.com.
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