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Washington
(H24N).
A model developed through a 14-year study on marriage can predict
divorce with 93 percent accuracy, researchers say.
Much
research divides marriage into two critical periods for survival:
the first seven years and the midlife, when children are young teen-agers.
The
study of married couples, which started in 1983, examined marital
health through watching interaction between the spouses in both
confrontational and non-confrontational settings. Four years later,
the couples were contacted again and reassessed. Of the 8.8 percent
of the couples who were divorced at that time, the average number
of years married was 5.2 years.
The
study, published in the National Council on Family Relations
Journal of Marriage and the Family, continued contacting those
who remained married the first seven years, and by 1996 27.8 percent
of them had divorced. The average length of marriage for those who
divorced during the second half of the study was 16.4 years.
Those
couples that experienced negative feelings during conflict with
their spouses at the beginning of their marriage were more likely
to get divorced within the first seven years of marriage.
For
the couples who made it into the second phase of marriage, the better
indicator was a lack of positive feelings during non-confrontational
settings in the early part of their marriage, namely no passion
about anything.
"It
is clear that divorce prediction with a high level of accuracy is
possible, and that models that contain continued martial dissatisfaction,
thoughts about divorce and separation, and the wife-demand-husband
withdraw pattern will predict divorce versus marital stability,"
conclude the study’s authors.
Eighty
percent of people who divorce cite growing apart, losing closeness
and not feeling loved or appreciated as the major reasons for separating.
Forty percent cite severe and intense fighting as the reason for
divorce.
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