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A fascinating
study about "post-bubble America" appeared in the June
11 issue of Fortune magazine. The article, "Okay, Now What?"
asked four corporate CEOs about their strategies for managing change.
Each company had a robust plan for addressing growth, merger and
expansion issues, but not one could address the possibility of a
recession. Our society has lived in the "growth and development"
model for so long that any thought of smaller or less is foreign
to our way of being. This evokes fear and clutching behavior of
trying to acquire more so we can get through the dark night safely.
Nursing is such
an incredible discipline, a privileged place to be. Yes, the field
is noisy and messy at the moment, and if we gaze outward it can
be unsettling. However, if we stay focused on our roots, on our
mission, on the people we are privileged to serve, we find that
we are surrounded with "masters of the simple" who hold
lessons for our well-being as well as their own. In short, we are
recession-proof.
If we reflect
on principles of growth and development, we can see how an individual
life goes through stages of enlargement and maturity. Each stage
dies out and gives way to the next stage, which is filled with even
more abundance, challenge and opportunity for growth. No one stage
is final, nor is it as complete as the one that follows it. This
cycle holds true for all of nature and the life cycles of families,
organizations and nations.
When I was younger,
my role models were people who were "successful." I thought
success meant the acquisition of things: money, house and car, career
and lifestyle. Today, I realize that the "outward focus"
is an important part of youth in establishing a place in the world.
However, once established, we suddenly find a richer role model
for "success"-and often it is the people we touch and
serve each day.
I have been
privileged to work with a Lakota Sioux holy man for the past 10
years, and each year I watch him move among his people. Reservation
life is hard; there is inadequate housing, food, economic opportunity.
But as my eyes grew accustomed to the harsher landscape, I started
to notice something-many of these people who had so little were
living out of abundance.
Instead of having
"things," they had "essence": solitude and silence
in which to reflect, a connection to nature that kept their own
rhythms balanced, relationships that were stronger than the forces
surrounding them, the spirit of sharing and generosity, a sense
of stewardship and service.
I realized that
the vibrant role models in society today are those who have a balanced
spiritual connection to themselves and all of life, rather than
just a strong relationship and dependence on material things that
can be controlled or taken away by an event or circumstance beyond
one's control.
Today, I invite
you to reflect on your role models. Are they the rich and famous,
or the people down the street? Are they corporate executives, or
your grandmother?
In a balanced
world we would look at both, admire their qualities and contributions,
and take the best of each into our own definition of worth and success.
In that way there is no judgment, no striving, but simply a flow
between who we are and all we touch. Then your balanced, healing
presence promotes peace, and harmony becomes a small ripple that
moves in ever-wider circles, blessing the whole world.
What
do you think?
Email us at
editor@nurseweek.com
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